I'd never compel a boyfriend into paying my bills - Lady

A Nigerian lady identified on Twitter as Omobewaji has revealed why she would never compel a boyfriend into paying her bills.

In a thread she shared, the lady revealed how her ex-boyfriend's family struggles changed her orientation about demanding for money from a guy.

She wrote:

"For many yrs ,I endured my “boyfriend” at the time calling me a MAN...saying “u never ask for money,ya always paying for stuffs,I can’t marry a woman like u...it hurt me o but dude didn’t know I came across a message sent by his mom one time ...she was talking bout how he...

Needs to send money home for their rent ,his sisters school fees n other things ...clearly ! Bobo was the breadwinner of the family ...which was why i made a conscious decision not to be another bill he’s trynna sort! If anything ,I can take care of me n ease him of d stress

Baba broke up that year o! Simply because I don’t allow him spend on me...it’s been yrs n uncle just hopped into my DM again n I told him d reason/s why I was like that then ...he was like “it took me years to find out that a girl like u is rare”...I want u back 

I just went like hold it o...ma lo whine me...Gbagbe bo shey shele ...I will collect money o,Shebi you don’t like ladies that act like MEN,uncle I am a woman n I’d like to b pampered n spoilt ...as u don’t hv sense to know that some of us don’t want to stress u...

Until I’m married to u,I ain’t your responsibility,don’t get it wrong ,I’d appreciate gifts n whatever you decide to do for me out of love !But I’d never compel a boyfriend into paying my bills,even in marriage gan,ll still pay “our” bills,no vex! My mother raised me differently".

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